Actually Hearing
It’s one of the most important ingredients in a growing and successful relationship. It is also the most neglected attribute in many relationships. I’m referring to the ability to actually hear one another. Many times we may think we are listening, but in reality, we are not. To actually hear someone, we must intentionally focus and lean into what that person is saying as well as how they are communicating.
Truly hearing someone is the difference between misunderstanding and clarity. Making assumptions during a conversation is a killer of authentic communication and understanding. Choosing to slow down and ask questions that bring a clear awareness of what the person is saying is essential.
Hearing what is actually being said takes work, humility, and discipline. It means prioritizing the other person’s communication, both verbally and nonverbally. This is a skill that can be learned and strengthened throughout life.
The most effective and powerful leaders as well as the most healthy relationships, realize the importance of continually working on listening to and understanding others. Take the challenge of asking those around you if they consider you a good or a poor listener. You may be surprised at the answer.
Choose to work on your listening skills; when you start to actually hear others, you will make a difference.
Larry
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